Since 3rd parties who have not been privy to many of the private communications between all parties involved in this debacle have now chosen to publicly post their opinions regarding this matter, holmes221b  ( holmes221b.livejournal.com/88065.html ) and before her, med_cat (who has since made her post private), I will now have my say.

I shall begin by stating that simply because one party wirral_bagpuss claims to wish only for reconciliation does not mean that it is true, possible, ever has been possible, OR, that any of the other parties involved wish it to be so.  As I stated in my previous post concerning this matter titled, "A friends lesson for those who seem to need it', located here: rjdoll2.livejournal.com/9206.html, posted on October 9th, 2009, my friends and I wish to be left alone. We have asked repeatedly not to be contacted in any way by wirral_bagpuss .  Since that time my friends have endured abusive texts blaming them for her supposed suicide attempts, and/ or suicidal thoughts, letters, cards, voice-messages, emails, calls, and almost every other form of communication possible. Not once has she done what was asked of her, which was simply to get on with her life, forget about us, and leave us alone.  Yes, my friends nunewesen , brighter2 ,  willowtreedance, and I sometimes have aggressively responded. One simply gets tired of taking it all of the time, and has to act accordingly.  I will not play or pretend to be the innocent victim, but I will tell you the facts (briefly), and I AM privy to communications between the parties on all sides, not just one. 

The one who has been the most unfairly treated, harassed, stalked, labeled, slandered, etc., in all of this is dear nunewesen. Not long ago my husband and I were lucky enough to have Susa (Nunewesen) stay with us in our home for an extended period of time.  We are the best of friends, we love and care for each other very much.  I consider myself very fortunate to have her in my life. My dear husband has incurable cancer, and Susa has been there for me in my worst moments. I ask you to think carefully, because most of you know what a private person I am, would I have someone that I didn't trust implicitly stay with me in my home? NO, I wouldn't!  Not once has she ever given me cause for concern re her character.  If she has ever seemed harsh, or said anything unkind, it was purely because she was forced to try and defend herself.  No longer will I stand by and watch her be hurt.  I could say much more here, and I will if necessary.

Now, as to my dear friend brighter2, we are also very close, and she knows me well.  Yes, she has a temper, as do I, but I know that I can trust her and I do.   Amanda is very special to me, she cares a great deal for her friends and acts accordingly.  A good person all around.

willowtreedance  has also been treated unfairly in all of this. She has been harassed even when she was at her lowest point. That is inexcusable.

I ask that you allow yourselves to think clearly upon what I have said, and to not be fooled by someone who is seeking sympathy and attention constantly by bemoaning the fact over and over that her ex-acquaintances will not reconcile with her. There will be NO reconciliation!  There cannot be after all that has transpired.  Move on with your life, and do not ever contact any of us again.

Jennifer



                         Statements concerning this matter from the above 'involved' people
                         can be found below:


                         Nunewesen -     click here

                         Brighter2 -         click here

                         Willowtreedance (formerly, Rebeccawilde) -  click here

Thank you to all of my dear friends for your support, caring, love, and for being there not only for me, but for each other. :)  Special thanks to those who enrich my life on a daily basis (you know who you are! ). It is indeed a privilege to know you.

May the New Year bring you peace, and continue to enable us all to enjoy our loved ones.

Possibly you find great comfort in Jeremy and/or his performances, so here is a little wallpaper I made for those cold winter days.  Snuggle up, grab some cocoa, and hibernate with Holmes.




My very best to you all, and many thanks...

Jennifer

A 'friend' does not try to guilt you, and lay blame at your feet for other people's accidents, and/or actions.

A 'friend' doesn't fail to take responsibility for their actions.

A 'friend' respects you, and does not invade your private space when space has been requested.

A 'friend' who truly loves you, and cares for you, does not discuss your private details with others without your consent, especially with those they know are NOT your friends. They also do not belittle projects that someone has poured their heart and soul into, and definitely not in public!

A 'friend' stands beside you, behind you, and supports you with care.

Everyone is free to pick and choose their friends, that is a given.  They are also free to defriend whom they wish to, when they wish to do so, and are not required to answer, explain, etc., to anyone!

Anyone applying pressure to a person who has chosen to defriend someone for private reasons is on my shit list.

If anyone does not like this post, they can defriend me now, (for God's sake PLEASE DO!!), because I have had it with the continual harassment some of my dear friends have faced, and are still facing. ^^

Some of my friends are under immense pressure right now, and the last thing they need is someone trying to lay guilt on them for other people's feelings, actions, etc.

When someone requests that they be left alone, not contacted any further, etc.,  that means just that:  DO NOT CONTACT THEM AGAIN. No mails, emails, voicemails, calls, text messages, videos, etc., NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER!!!  When someone does not wish to be your friend any longer, THAT is the end of the story, PERIOD!

Jennifer

I am happy to say that the 'Jeremy Brett Memorial Walk ' will take place this week in London.  :)  For further information, please click on the following link(s)  nunewesen.livejournal.com/52369.html and for updated info...: community.livejournal.com/jeremybrett/226021.html

It will be a wonderful, and heartfelt tribute to our beloved Jeremy, and I send special thanks to my very dear friend,nunewesen  for all her hard work and dedication. Our hearts are with you even if we cannot be there in person.

On that note, if you cannot attend, but wish to donate to the charities involved, you will find the information you need here:  nunewesen.livejournal.com/52369.html   Fantastic causes that are dear to Jeremy, what better way to celebrate our good man?! :)



An aside to 'Jeremy Brett Group' members, dealing with private matters that have unfortunately been made public of late, courtesy of the administrator/owner of the 'Jeremy Brett Group' on Youtube:

www.youtube.com/group/jeremybrett  entitled 'Warning'



My best to you all...
Jennifer

Hello to all of you, my dear friends.  :)

I have been offline a great deal for various reasons, and will probably remain so for a while longer.  Just to let everyone know, I am okay, and I thank you all for your concern. I must apologize for not getting back to you all, and I do hope you will forgive me. As soon as I can, I will be getting back to you.

My best wishes go out to so many of you, and you know who you are.

I have NOT forgotten that many of you are going through distressing times, dealing with very serious issues, and I hope you remember, you are on my mind, in my thoughts, and shall remain so.

Also, I shall hopefully be able to start back on some Jeremy projects in the near future.. no, Jeremy never leaves me, thank goodness! :)

Take care, and hugs to you!

Jennifer ^_^

Ahhh, the call of Jeremy, summoning me into photoshop.  ^_^  Do I need to tell you how good it felt to be there in my wonderful Jeremy world again?  No, I believe all who know me understand exactly what I mean. There is nothing like working with dear Jeremy. :)

He is so beautiful inside and outside. Jeremy brings peace and happiness to my world. He is warmth and light....goodness, and....okay, I know, I could go on and on. ^^

I do hope you enjoy them...










( more this way.. so click away, my friends.. )

As most of you are aware, this journal has always been about our love for Jeremy, and of course, my love, admiration, and deepest respect for him. I have seldom posted personal thoughts (unrelated to Jeremy) here, and I am loathed to do so even now.

I strongly suggest that anyone who has a problem with anyone's religion, sexuality, race, mental health situation, etc., etc.,. get the h*** out of Dodge (so to speak), as I have no time for them. Open hearts and open minds are welcome at any time here, and on all Jeremy related channels under my control.

This 'fight' is draining my creative energy, and I will not stand for it. The task at hand (at least for me), is to continue to make things for Jeremy, for others who love Jeremy, and his compassionate, understanding, and loving ways.

To clear up one matter: this 'fight' started because space and privacy were not granted when requested.

The end.

As always, I thank my dear friends for their support, love, caring, etc...  thank you! ^_^
Now, let's pour all our energy back into the positive, which is Jeremy!  Will you join me?

Faith, hope, love and courage. A few words from our beloved Jeremy. :)


Download here:

drop.io/luvJeremy2/asset/a-few-words-from-jeremy-keep-hope-alive-mp3


Jeremy Brett - 'Our Eternal Hero'





My most sincere thanks to my dear friend Linda, for everything she does and has done.
This was taped on April 12, 1989, at Linda's sendoff for her 'Keep Hope Alive' run.

As always, much love to Jeremy,.. xxxx

Let us continue to 'Keep Hope Alive'.
Jennifer ^_^

My heart lies broken this cold September day.
The news breaching my every defense.
A shroud of darkness fills the air and my breath grows ever weaker.
Such torment stains the soul upon which your light once shown.
So marks the end of my salvation.
Inconsolable am I without you,
inconsolable...


Come grant me sweet relief from the despair which ravages my spirit.
Withdraw the dagger that plunges ever deeper.
Reveal one glowing ember of hope that you hear me still.
Soothe this ever present ache with my fondest desire.
Fill me with the warmth of your love once more.
Incomplete am I without you,
incomplete...


Before what mighty power must I kneel to dissuade its eternal hold?


( for happier 'Jeremy' times, click this way please.... )

This is in response to the poster that was recently released... 





Any questions on where I stand in the matter? I don't think so!!!   ^^